
Have you ever asked the question, or been asked the question, “who are you trying to impress?” Relevant mag writer Adam Smith addresses the hipster culture in an interest piquing article, Who Are We Trying to Impress. A snippet:
Our generation, the 18-to-34 set, tend to share a common characteristic. We are remarkably self-satisfied. We are socially aware, politically sensitive and culturally savvy, and we like this about ourselves. The question it raises, however, is if all our sensitivity, savviness and awareness has led anywhere. Certainly, social justice campaigns abound within our generation. One would be loathe to be identified within the subculture without a keen passion for grassroots, countercultural movements. However, where have these movements led? Is ours a generation that is quietly changing the world, or is social conscience just one more accoutrement of fashion for us? An accessory we wear with our Chuck Taylors and horn-rimmed glasses? It seems we’re out not just to change the world, but to impress. The question is, who exactly are we trying to impress?
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Moreover, we’re certainly not blind to the problem. In surveys conducted by cable network The N, our own generation described itself as lazy, materialistic and self-absorbed. So, if we know this about ourselves, what are we doing to change it? The problem, I think, comes in the fact that it’s easy to apply these epithets to our generation without applying them to ourselves as individuals. Let me be the first to say, I embody these traits as much as any of us. It’s time for us to take responsibility, not as a generation, but as individuals to live the kind of outwardly focused life we hold in such esteem. Who are we trying to impress with our cultural savvy, our rebellious fashion sense and political awareness? Essentially, it’s each other. On a whole, we’re trying to impress our peers, strangers we pass on the street who—in reality—notice us no more than we do them.
None of these things (cultural awareness, political activism, mode and standard of dress) are bad in and of themselves. The problem comes when we elevate the veneer behind our efforts above the causes we claim to stand for. I adamantly believe that this is a fantastic generation, capable of amazing things. Not only capable of amazing things, mind you, but in reality already doing amazing things. It is time, though, that all of us (myself included) take a deep look at our motives and priorities. It’s time we stop trying to impress, and start making a difference for the sake of making a difference.
Read the whole thing here. (HT: HB)
Shame
Why is God’s grace so tough for us to understand? Some of us know that we need Jesus, but we just don’t quite grasp how that works and the danger is that if you try to get Jesus or you try to understand why he died on the cross without an understanding of grace, what you’ll experience in your life is shame.
Do you walk around with shame? I’ve been there. There’s a band that my wife and I enjoy called the Avett Brothers and one of my favorite songs by these guys is simply called “Shame” and the chorus goes like this – read it and ask yourself if this is what is going on inside of you:
“Shame. Boatloads of shame.
Day after day. More of the same.
Blame, please lift it off.
Please take it off, please make it stop.”
For many people in the world, that’s a lifesong. And maybe you get Jesus and maybe you’ve surrendered your life to him and maybe you understand that he died on the cross for your sins but you really can’t get your head around grace… And so you’re filled with shame.
Shame because you still sin. Shame because you feel like every time you do, you’re jeopardizing your relationship with God…. Shame because when you sin, you feel like your Christian friends or your spouse or your pastor or someone in that place called church is going to see right through you and call you out for the fake that you keep telling yourself that you are.
Boatloads of shame.
And if you’re there. If you’re there – these words from this song just ring true in your life and something inside is just crying out: “Please take it off, please make it stop.”
And maybe what you’ve been taught is that the reason you keep falling, the reason you keep screwing up is that you just don’t have enough faith. See if you just really believed in Jesus you wouldn’t do those things because if you’re sinning, then you must not fully believe. Have you heard this? So just believe, right? Now – for the most part, that’s true. But it’s not really that helpful.
Beseeching you to believe might appeal to your emotions, but it really doesn’t get into your heart and so what happens is you can have an emotional response to a conversation or a sermon or even a prayer and want to change. But if all it is is an emotional response, it’s going to wear off. And so a week or a month or a year later you’re back in that same place dealing with the same junk and you can’t break free from it and so you’re filled with shame and inside you’re screaming, “please take it off; please make it stop.”
So what’s the answer? Romans 3:23 tells us that we’re all sinners – you, me, every person that goes to church, every pastor, every spouse, everyone – and we all fall short of the glory of God. If you’re filled with shame, you know that. You feel that. You live that. But what you also need to know, feel, and live is that for those that have surrendered their life to Jesus, the very next verse provides the key. See, as Christians, though we are sinners, we are justified by God’s grace as a gift, through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus.
All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God AND, and are justified by his grace as a gift, through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus, whom God put forward as a propitiation by his blood, to be received by faith. (Romans 3:23-24, ESV)
You want to know where the real power of the gospel is to set you free? It’s grace. Unmerited favor. None of us deserve what Jesus accomplished for us on the cross. As Christians, we are sinners saved by grace. Justified (put right) with God by his gift of grace through Jesus. And when you get that – when you get that you’re a sinner and that the only way to be right before a holy God is to be PUT RIGHT before God by grace, it changes everything. When you realize that it’s not about what you do that makes you right (going to church, reading your Bible, praying every day, helping people out) but what God did (sent Jesus to die on the Cross for your sins) – it sets you free from your shame because you come to realize that even though you are a sinner, even though you still screw up, even though you’re not perfect – Christ died on the cross for your sins.
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